Un fait in\u00e9dit a s’est d\u00e9roul\u00e9 au quartier Ndosho, pr\u00e8s de la petite montagne de sable, o\u00f9 une c\u00e9r\u00e9monie de dot a vir\u00e9 \u00e0 la tension familiale.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\nUne veuve, m\u00e8re d’une fille unique, a cat\u00e9goriquement refus\u00e9 que le fianc\u00e9 de sa fille se pr\u00e9sente \u00e0 son domicile le jour m\u00eame o\u00f9 la famille du gar\u00e7on devait venir discuter de la dot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Selon les t\u00e9moignages recueillis sur place, la m\u00e8re de la jeune fille s\u2019opposait depuis longtemps \u00e0 cette union, estimant que le gar\u00e7on ne correspondait pas \u00e0 ses attentes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Elle reprochait \u00e0 sa fille de s\u2019ent\u00eater et de ne pas respecter son avis, allant jusqu\u2019\u00e0 affirmer qu\u2019aucune discussion de mariage ne se tiendrait tant que le jeune homme franchirait son seuil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Face \u00e0 l\u2019inflexibilit\u00e9 de sa m\u00e8re, la jeune fille, d\u00e9termin\u00e9e \u00e0 poursuivre sa relation, s\u2019est tourn\u00e9e vers ses oncles paternels. Ces derniers, favorables \u00e0 l\u2019union, ont pris fait et cause pour leur ni\u00e8ce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Leur soutien a permis \u00e0 la d\u00e9l\u00e9gation du fianc\u00e9 de maintenir la rencontre pr\u00e9vue, malgr\u00e9 les tensions internes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mais la m\u00e8re, veuve et chef du m\u00e9nage depuis la mort de son mari, a pos\u00e9 un veto clair :<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cJe n\u2019accepterai jamais que ce gar\u00e7on entre dans ma maison,\u201d a-t-elle lanc\u00e9 .<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cette attitude a \u00e9t\u00e9 per\u00e7ue par plusieurs membres de la communaut\u00e9 comme une violation des us et coutumes locales, qui pr\u00f4nent la concertation familiale et le respect des d\u00e9marches coutumi\u00e8res.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Plusieurs voisins et proches parents pr\u00e9sents ont d\u00e9nonc\u00e9 une attitude paradoxale : comment emp\u00eacher la pr\u00e9sence du principal concern\u00e9 dans une c\u00e9r\u00e9monie qui le vise directement ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Certains \u00e9voquent une rancune personnelle ou des diff\u00e9rends anciens entre les deux familles, tandis que d\u2019autres pointent un conflit g\u00e9n\u00e9rationnel et un manque de communication entre la m\u00e8re et sa fille.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Malgr\u00e9 tout, la c\u00e9r\u00e9monie de dot a eu lieu dans une ambiance tendue. Le jeune homme est rest\u00e9 \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cart du domicile familial, pendant que sa famille conduisait les n\u00e9gociations dans la cour, sous une forte pr\u00e9sence des membres paternels de la fille.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cette situation relance le d\u00e9bat autour du r\u00f4le des parents dans les mariages coutumiers en ville de Goma, notamment lorsque l\u2019un des parents est d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9 et que l\u2019autre se retrouve seul \u00e0 assumer la charge de d\u00e9cision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Entre respect de la tradition, droit au choix individuel et poids des blessures du pass\u00e9, les tensions familiales trouvent ici un terrain sensible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
L\u2019affaire continue de faire couler beaucoup d\u2019encre dans les rues de Ndosho, o\u00f9 l\u2019on s\u2019interroge sur l\u2019issue du mariage et les relations \u00e0 venir entre les deux familles. En attendant, les habitants observent, divis\u00e9s, entre ceux qui d\u00e9fendent le droit de la m\u00e8re et ceux qui plaident pour l\u2019\u00e9mancipation de la fille.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Affaire \u00e0 suivre\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\nla r\u00e9daction<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Un fait in\u00e9dit a s’est d\u00e9roul\u00e9 au quartier Ndosho, pr\u00e8s de la petite montagne de sable, o\u00f9 une c\u00e9r\u00e9monie de dot a vir\u00e9 \u00e0 la tension familiale. Une veuve, m\u00e8re<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":67575,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-67576","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-culture"],"yoast_head":"\n
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